Continence concerns are common as we age — and they can feel difficult to talk about. The good news is that there are many ways to manage continence at home comfortably and discreetly, while keeping daily life as normal as possible.

What do continence issues mean?

Continence refers to bladder and bowel control. Changes can occur gradually or suddenly and are usually caused by a medical or physical factor. Importantly, continence issues may be treatable and manageable — and you don’t need to cope alone.

Common types of incontinence in older people

  • Urge incontinence: a sudden, strong need to go, sometimes not making it in time.
  • Stress incontinence: leakage when coughing, sneezing, or lifting.
  • Overflow incontinence: bladder doesn’t empty fully, leading to dribbling.
  • Functional incontinence: mobility, arthritis, or slow movement make getting to the toilet in time hard.

Everyday strategies that help at home

  • Toileting routines: Going at set times can prevent urgency.
  • Hydration timing: drink regularly throughout the day and avoid excessive late-night drinking.
  • Easy toilet access: keep the path to the bathroom clear and well-lit.
  • Clothing choices: elastic waistbands and easy-fastening clothes reduce rushing.

Helpful continence aids and home equipment

Products can make daily life easier and reduce stress. The “best” option depends on mobility, comfort, and when leakage happens.

  • Pads and liners: for light to moderate protection.
  • Pull-up briefs: comfortable for day-to-day wear.
  • All-in-one briefs: higher protection, often preferred overnight.
  • Bed and chair protectors: washable or disposable.
  • Commodes or raised toilet seats: helpful when mobility is limited.
  • Toilet rails: improve safety and independence.

Your local Just Better Care team can work with you and other healthcare professionals to help you choose and fit products so you feel secure and comfortable.

Skin care and infection prevention

Protecting skin is essential when leakage happens regularly. Gentle cleansing, barrier creams, and changing continence aids promptly can prevent irritation and infections.

When to involve a nurse or GP?

Seek clinical support if you notice:

  • new or sudden incontinence
  • pain or burning when urinating
  • blood in urine
  • fever, confusion, or strong urine odour
  • Ongoing constipation or bowel changes 
  • Or any change to your normal bowel or bladder habits

These can be signs of infections or other treatable conditions.

How can Just Better Care help with continence at home?

Our Nurses can undertake a continence assessment to ensure individualised support and management. Our Support Workers can support continence routines, help with hygiene and continence aid changes, and work alongside your health team if additional support is needed. Support services can be as light or as regular as required.

If you’d like to talk privately, your local Just Better Care team is here to help.


Frequently Asked Questions

Is incontinence a normal part of ageing?

No, incontinence is not a normal part of ageing. While it can be common, it often has treatable causes, and with the right support, comfort and quality of life can be significantly improved.

What continence products work best overnight?

The most suitable products can vary depending on individual needs and preferences. Options may include all-in-one briefs, high-absorbency pull-ups, or other combinations, often used alongside a bed protector to enhance comfort and protection.

When should I see a GP about continence issues?

If symptoms are new, worsening, painful, or affecting daily life, a GP can assess causes and treatment options.

Want to understand how in-home nursing from Just Better Care could support you or a loved one?

Visit our In-Home Nursing page to learn more about:

  • When is in-home nursing the right choice? Including for recovery, ongoing health conditions, or clinical support needs
  • The types of nursing services available at home include support services such as wound care, medication management, medication prompting and injections, enteral feeding, catheter and continence care, and vital-sign monitoring.
  • How nursing fits alongside your other supports, with care tailored to your health goals and daily routine.
  • What to expect when you start services, including a personalised plan and coordination with your wider health team.
  • Why families choose Just Better Care for clinical care at home, with trusted local nurses and person-centred support.